Human Distress Is Not Merely a Body Problem

A human being suffers in more than one place.

by Richard P. Weigand

 

A human being suffers in more than one place.

He suffers in the body.

He suffers in the mind.

He suffers in memory.

He suffers in conscience.

He suffers in relationship.

He suffers in meaning.

He suffers in spirit.

To reduce all distress to the body is to begin from too small a view of man.

The body matters.

No aware person can deny that.

Sleep matters.

Food matters.

Pain matters.

Hormones matter.

Inflammation, infection, injury, exhaustion, and depletion matter.

A body under strain can disturb thought, mood, energy, attention, and courage.

But the body is not the whole person.

The Reduction

Modern treatment often begins by reducing the problem.

The person is anxious.

The explanation becomes chemistry.

The person is despairing.

The explanation becomes disorder.

The person is restless.

The explanation becomes diagnosis.

The person is angry, sleepless, ashamed, afraid, or overwhelmed.

The explanation becomes a medical category.

This may sound compassionate.

It may appear to remove blame.

But it can also remove the person.

It can bypass the life.

What happened?

What was lost?

What was feared?

What was betrayed?

What was invalidated?

What responsibility was abandoned?

What purpose disappeared?

What truth could not be faced?

What grief was never handled?

Those questions are not secondary.

They may be central.

The Meaning of Distress

Distress is not always disease.

Sometimes distress is a signal.

It may signal danger.

It may signal conflict.

It may signal exhaustion.

It may signal a violated boundary.

It may signal guilt.

It may signal grief.

It may signal that the person is living against what he knows.

It may signal that his life has lost order.

It may signal that he has become effect where he should be cause.

If the signal is simply suppressed, the message may be lost.

The person feels better.

But he may not be better.

The alarm is quieter.

But the fire may still be burning.

The Body Is Often the Messenger

The body often speaks when the person has stopped listening.

Sleeplessness may not be random.

Tension may not be meaningless.

Fatigue may not be merely chemical.

A racing heart may not be only a heart.

A stomach in knots may not be only a stomach.

The body can carry what the person refuses, avoids, fears, or cannot yet face.

This does not make the suffering imaginary.

It may make it more important.

The body is real.

The distress is real.

But the cause may not be located where the symptom appears.

The Person Must Be Restored

If man is treated only as a body, then treatment naturally aims at the body.

Drug the agitation.

Sedate the fear.

Stimulate the attention.

Suppress the despair.

Restrain the behavior.

Sometimes immediate restraint may be needed.

Sometimes danger must be contained.

Sometimes the body truly requires medical attention.

But if treatment ends there, it may never reach the person.

The person must be restored to his own life.

He must find what happened.

He must recover agency.

He must confront what is real.

He must repair what can be repaired.

He must change what must be changed.

He must regain purpose.

He must recover enough cause to live.

The Error of Mercy Without Truth

It is often said that labeling distress as disease removes shame.

Sometimes it does.

But it can also remove responsibility, meaning, and hope.

A person may be told:

This is not about your life.

This is not about your choices.

This is not about what happened.

This is not about what you failed to face.

This is not about what was done to you.

This is not about what you can repair.

It is your condition.

Take this.

That may be easier.

But ease is not the same as truth.

And management is not the same as healing.

A Larger View of Man

A larger view does not deny the body.

It includes the body and then goes further.

It asks about sleep and food.

It asks about pain and depletion.

It asks about fear and grief.

It asks about rejection and humiliation.

It asks about responsibility and meaning.

It asks about relationship and spirit.

It asks what happened.

It asks where the person lost cause.

It asks what must be done now.

That is not blame.

It is respect.

It assumes the person is more than a mechanism.

It assumes he can still participate in his own recovery.

The Better Starting Point

Human distress deserves more than reduction.

It deserves investigation.

It deserves protection when danger is present.

It deserves compassion when the person is overwhelmed.

It deserves structure when life has become chaotic.

It deserves truth when the wrong explanation has taken hold.

And it deserves a view of man large enough to include the whole person.

The body matters.

But man is not merely a body.

And healing must not begin by forgetting that.

 

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