Fear Effects

Fear does not merely respond to a situation. It can change how we see and act until we help create the situation we feared.

by Richard P. Weigand

 

If fear cannot find a threat, it may invent one.

We usually think fear comes after danger. Something threatens us, and then we become afraid.

But fear can also work in the other direction.

The body becomes alarmed first. The heart beats faster. Muscles tighten. Sleep becomes harder. We feel uneasy, angry, or ready for trouble, even when we do not know why.

Then the mind goes looking for an explanation.

It may decide that another person is against you. It may assign a bad intention to an innocent remark. It may turn a political opponent into a threat. If the mind cannot find an enemy, it may invent one.

That is how fear can help create the very trouble it fears.

The Alarm Comes First

Years ago, I read a book called The Ion Effect, written by Fred Soyka and Alan Edmonds and published in 1977. The authors wrote about the strange effects long associated with certain dry winds around the world.

California has the Santa Ana winds. Europe and the Middle East have winds with names such as the foehn, mistral, sirocco, and sharav. People have long blamed these winds for headaches, poor sleep, irritability, arguments, accidents, and even violence.

The Ion Effect proposed that these winds carry an excess of positive ions that can affect the body and stimulate its stress response. The book even described courts in some places treating the winds as a factor when judging violent behavior.

Some of those claims remain disputed, and the science of air ions does not give us a final answer. But the book raised an important human question:

What happens when the body is agitated and the mind does not know why?

That extra energy must go somewhere. We may become impatient with a spouse, angry at a driver, suspicious of a neighbor, or furious over something on television. The mind finds a reason for the feeling, even if the reason is wrong.

The feeling is real. The explanation may not be.

We Color What We Do Not Know

This connects with a question I have written about before: Who is the enemy?

We rarely know another person’s full intention. We see an action, hear a few words, or notice a look. Then we fill in what is missing.

If we are calm, we may think:

Perhaps he misunderstood me.

Perhaps she is tired.

Perhaps there is something going on that I do not know about.

Perhaps this has nothing to do with me.

But when we are already alarmed, we color the blank differently:

He meant to insult me.

She is trying to control me.

They are coming after people like us.

The alarm inside us becomes evidence about the intention of someone outside us.

We then react to the intention we assigned. The other person feels attacked and reacts defensively. We see that reaction and say, “I knew it.”

Fear has produced its own proof.

Politics Runs on This

This happens between individuals, but it also happens to whole groups of people.

Politics has learned how easily fear can be directed. Keep people worried, angry, and uncertain, and they will naturally look for someone to blame. Then give them an enemy.

The enemy may be the other political party, immigrants, government workers, business owners, the rich, the poor, the press, or people in another part of the country. Almost anyone can be used to explain the alarm.

The people on the other side are doing the same thing. Each group becomes afraid of the other. Each watches for the worst possible meaning in everything the other group says. Each acts more aggressively because it believes the other side is dangerous.

Before long, both sides have helped create the hostility they predicted.

This does not mean that there are no real threats or dishonest people. There are. It means that fear is a poor judge of which threat is real. Fear wants an answer quickly. It does not like missing information, and it does not wait patiently for facts.

A Body That Never Gets the All Clear

The body’s fight-or-flight response is not the enemy. It is an ancient system meant to save us.

When danger appears, the body gives us energy to fight, run, or act quickly. When the danger passes, that response is supposed to settle. The body can then return to rest, digestion, sleep, repair, and clear thought.

Worry interrupts that return.

The danger may be over, far away, or only imagined, but the mind keeps presenting it to the body. We replay yesterday’s argument. We picture tomorrow’s disaster. We watch the same frightening news throughout the day. Each time, the body is told to prepare again.

This can become more noticeable as we age. Older people may be dealing with pain, poor sleep, medication effects, loss, loneliness, or less physical reserve. A body that once absorbed stress easily may no longer do so.

But this is not merely a problem of old age. It is a human problem. Many young people now live under a steady stream of warnings, arguments, alerts, and predictions of disaster. Their bodies also need the all-clear signal.

Stop Worrying Does Not Mean Stop Caring

Telling someone to stop worrying can sound foolish. If it were that easy, everyone would do it.

But worry and concern are not the same thing.

Concern asks, “What can I do?”

Worry repeats, “What if?”

Concern looks for facts and takes useful action. Worry keeps the alarm ringing after there is nothing useful to do.

To stop worrying does not mean pretending that everything is fine. It means refusing to suffer tomorrow’s trouble today.

If there is a real danger, face it. If there is something useful to do, do it. But before deciding who is against you or what terrible thing is about to happen, interrupt the alarm.

Pause.

Step back.

Let the body settle.

Then ask a question that has served me well for most of my life:

What is the simplest explanation for what is happening?

The simplest answer is often not that someone is plotting against us. It may be a misunderstanding. It may be fear on the other person’s side. It may be exhaustion, pain, embarrassment, or missing information. It may be that we felt the alarm before we understood its source.

Calming down does not make us weak. It makes better judgment possible.

Before You Name the Enemy

Fear narrows the world. It tells us to act now and understand later. It demands an explanation and is always ready to accept the darkest one.

We do not have to obey it.

Before answering the angry message, pause. Before deciding what another person intended, step back. Before accepting the enemy chosen for us by a political speaker or television program, let the body settle and look again.

The danger may be real. But the first explanation may not be the right one.

When the body is alarmed, the mind looks for an enemy. If it cannot find one, it may invent one.

Do what needs to be done. Then give your body permission to stand down.

Stop worrying.

Do not let fear create tomorrow before tomorrow arrives.

If this article caused you to pause and reconsider where an enemy may have been invented, please share it with someone who might find it useful.

Related reading

Who Is the Enemy?

The News Machine

 

Source note

Fred Soyka and Alan Edmonds, The Ion Effect: How Air Electricity Rules Your Life and Health (1977). The book’s claims about positive air ions and behavior remain debated. Its discussion is used here as a historical illustration, not as settled medical evidence.